E180: The Cassandra Effect and the Problem with Ignoring Magic

Y'all know that I really admire John Beckett, aka the author of Under the Ancient Oaks on Patheos. Often, something he muses upon fires up something in my own brain and I have to speak to it. His latest article "Sigil Magic: Did The Spell Work?" really hit for me. Of course, I took this a different direction (sorry, John, you know my wandering), but the question kept creeping up in my mind: how do we know if it could have?

Join me on the porch, Batchildren, to think through the other side of this coin.

Love y'all like chicken,
Seba

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E179: Covert Patriarchy (and how it can infest/manifest where you live)

Well, y'all, I meant to write about moon magic. But then, I turned on the mic and this just fell out of my soul.

But, it’s relevant to where we are in this country right now, where I’ve been in my journey and battle against the patriarchy, and how its tendrils can slip around your life without much pomp or circumstance. It’s just insidious like that.

Save a chicken, fry the patriarchy, Witches!!

Love y'all like chicken! xoxo Seba

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E178: Whozitts and Whatzitts Galore: An Independence Day Story

Sometimes, the price of "love" is too dear, Batchildren. What have we given up, as Witches?

Hope y'all are okay tonight. I know how the cognitive dissonance between what we believed was real and what is showing up can make you feel crazy. Fight like hell, Batchildren, to find your ground.

P.S.: Maybe, I hope, America will get her voice back one day.

Love y'all like chicken, Seba

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E177: Why Potential Means Nothing and Slow Roasted Magic Means Everything

Y'all, I thought I was just doing a quick episode that would amount to not much, but I like this one. It's something I've thought about for a long, long time.

Remember: don't strive for bippity, boppity, boo. Go for the long haul. Be the Witch you were born to be.

Love y'all like chicken,
Seba

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E174: Astral Travel, Accountability, and the Witchcraft of Thoughtful Archeology

Do we really get a do-over? And if we do, what do we lose? Sometimes, the universe knows exactly what she's doing.

Snuggle in, y'all. Time to talk about the past, and how we are creating it with every flutter of our wings.

(I meant to come back to this for more sound edits, but to hell with it. Raw work it is!)

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E173: Snake Magic and the Bravery of Broken Witches

Snuggle in, Batchildren. We chatting about bravery in the face of monsters, finding protection in the most unlikely shapes, and forging forward in a storm. You are already brave enough, Witch.

Special shoutout to my grandchild and my new best friend, a rat snake named Winifred.

Love y’all like chicken, Seba

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E172: Nolite te Bastardes Carborundorum

Trigger Warnings, all around: this episode is about abuse every single kind of it.

My daughter has come home to heal. It's been nearly twelve years since I've wrapped my arms around her, but Mother's Day changed that. She is broken, bleeding, and in need of support.

I will be posting her Freefunder here. She is the direct recipient--and she is more than worthy of support.

I don't think I did her story justice in this podcast. My voice sounds strained, unlike myself, and for that I apologize. The emotions kept getting in the way, especially as I see a maternal story (curse?) being passed down to my daughter. It's not okay. And this is, most assuredly, a Witch issue, Batchildren.

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E171: The Crumbling, Unattended Wards We Keep

We've all done it, haven't we? Just went ahead with our normal warding practices, not one thought to whether or not they even could still hold water--much less, something nefarious.

Snuggle in and let's chat about rotted boards, broken entryways, and our own complicity when it comes to protecting what we matters.

Love y'all like chicken-, Batchildren.

xoxo, Seba

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